Sunday, July 4, 2010

the journey has ended

well it looks as though this journey has ended. Baby boy Tristen Ryan was born Saturday July 3 at 6:59pm @ only 19wks. He now joins his big brother and sis in heaven.

I love you.

35 comments:

The Meuniers said...

Oh, Shandrea, I'm so sorry! Yall are in my prayers! Oh, I wish I had words that would help, but I know there are none. So sorry... sending hugs and prayers to you now (((hugs)))

Nan & Mike said...

Sending more love hugs and prayers, I thought about you all night. His name is beautiful and I know he is with his big brother and big sister and all our babies in the sky. I love you xxx

Kristie said...

Shandrea, I'm so sorry, so sorry to hear this. I'm heartbroken for you and your family. I'm praying for you, please know that we love you.

Just Breathe said...

Shandrea, my heart is heavy with your sorrow. I am so sorry. Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers. {{HUGS}}

Marie W said...

Shandrea, I have been praying for you the last couple of days. My heart was worried though I did not know why and so all I could do was pray. I even searched for you on face.book. My heart hurts to see this, but please know that if you need an extra friend to talk to I am available. I will send you my # via FB. Praying for you and Robert. {hugs}

Famille Wopat said...

Here through Nan-I have been praying and will continue to pray. I am so sorry, so beyond sorry because what can sorry even do?
My heart is breaking and I only wish there was something I could do to change this.
Peace and love to you.

Dawn said...

There are no words to express how deeply sorry I am for your loss. Please know what a strong courageous person I think you are and that if you need anything at all feel free to contact me (DVerhague@gmail.com). You and your husband are in my prayers.

Brie said...

Chills just ran down my back and tears are falling from my eyes for your heartbreak. I am so very sorry for your loss.

Tina said...

Oh Shandrea I don't even know what to say. It angers me that this has happened to you, it is so unfair. I have been thinking of & praying for you. I wish I could do something to change this & take your pain away. Wishing for peace & comfort for you. XX

The Blue Sparrow said...

Oh Shandrea, I am so so sorry. My heart is breaking for you! Its all so unfair! I wish I could do or say something! Just know that I will be praying for you! Rest in the Lord, He is the ultimate comforter! (((HUGS)))

DeniFay said...

Sweet Grace! No one should have to endure so much heartbreak, but continuing to know God is holding you in the palm of his hands!!!

Britt said...

There are no words...I am so very sorry for your loss friend. Sending you prayers that God wraps His peace and understanding around you.

Courtney said...

I'm coming over from Nan's site. I am so incredibly sorry for your loss again. I lost twins in Jan 09 and lost our rainbow on May 31st of this year. My heart just aches for you as I know the amount of pain you are going through. I wish you weren't.

Please know I am keeping you close to my heart.
*hugs*

Bree said...

I came from Nan's site, too. I am so incredibly sorry, Shandrea. I am grieving the loss of your sweet babies with you. xo

belle said...

i came from hannah's hope.... (((((hugs))))).

i'm soooooo sorry.

Antoinette said...

I am a friend of Katy's and Kristie's....I am absolutely HEART BROKEN with you to hear of you sweet baby....(((hugs))) There are NO WORDS to ease the pain, there are only prayers and LOVE that I can send you....We may not know each other, and I may only have become aware of your journey you have been on all in one day...but I am here for you...this blog is YOUR place for comfort as you already know too well....I with I had some magic wand to fix this all....I lost my daughter Alyssa Marie @36 weeks on 2/23/10. I stopped feeling movements and heard the heart wrenching words "there is NO heart beat" .....I remember that being the worst, scariest day of MY life....I do not know the pain that comes with having 3 angels. and I wish YOU did not too. I can only imagine your pain and all I can say is I am praying for you SO HARD!! My blog is private for personal reasons but PLEASE email me antoinettestabile@msn.com if you would like to follow or if you see my name on FB please request me. Again, you and your husband are forever in my prayers now..I wish we met under different circumstances, xoxoxo

Jennifer said...

Oh, bless your precious soul! I am so very sorry for you and your husband. I came over from Katy's blog and just wanted you to know I am praying along with so many others for God to wrap his loving arms even tighter around the two of you and draw you to him. There are no words of comfort that I can offer to ease your broken heart, just prayers...I am so sorry.

Michelle said...

I am so sorry to hear of yet another loss for you. It breaks my heart! I am praying that God can help to ease the pain you are feeling. No one should ever have to go through what your and your husband are going through. Sending you all my love.

Andrea said...

Shandrea, my heart is heavy...I am so sorry...You have been on my mind and in my heart a lot this past weekend. I know your heart is broken, I'm wishing that you will find comfort in God's word and that He will bring you some peace. Much love and many hugs, Andrea

Lori said...

No words but you know you've been on my heart and mind and my prayers continue for you and your peace.

So much love, friend...

Sarita Boyette said...

I read about your loss on Katy's blog. I am so sorry that you and your husband have had to say goodbye to three babies.Please know that I will be praying for peace for all of you.

Angie H said...

Hi Shandrea !

Im so sorry ! I was hoping so much the cerclage would make a difference .
I cant even imagine the pain you must go through now .
Nobody should have to go through this.
Its beyond my comprehension that someone has to suffer so much .
I know your faith is strong and I hope that you will lean on GOd for peace and guidance.
I beleieve that you will make it with Gods help and your familys help as I know you have a strong family too.
I will keep praying for you that sooner or later you will be blessed with a earthly baby and knowing you I dont think you will give up .
I wish there was more I could do .
Sending you much love - Angie

Nicole said...

I too read of your loss on Katy's blog. I'm so sorry for your loss. I've been praying for days, and I just wanted to let you know that I'm sending you all my love and I'm here for you, should you ever need to talk or anything.

All my love.

Nicole

Stephanie said...

I came over from Nan's blog and wanted to say something...but I personally know that no words are enough. I am praying for you sweetie. I am so very very sorry and heartbroken for you both.

Elana said...

I am so very sorry for your loss. :-(

Jennifer Ross said...

My heart is broken for you. I just can't believe this. I read your post above this one, and all I can say is how much I look up to you right now! You have very strong faith, and you will shine through other hurting hearts. God bless you and your husband, and your precious children.

justine said...

here from LFCA. I'm so sorry for your loss ... you and Robert will be in my thoughts. Please be kind to yourselves and to each other. *hug* from a stranger ...

Michele said...

Here from Nan's and just wanted to send you loving thoughts and prayers for your family. I have three little saints in heaven too, all born too premature too survive, and it breaks my heart to know your heartache. Many prayers...

cgd said...

I am so very sorry for the loss of your baby. You have been through so much already,I cannot imagine your heart ache. Sending love your way.
~from LFCA~

cowgirltn said...

I am here to sit with you during this very trying time. With deepest sympathy for your loss.

Stacie said...

I am so, so sorry for this loss. Much love to you.

lis said...

im so sorry. no one should know this pain once, let alone 3 times. i am sending love and peace your way.
xoxo
lis

Kelly said...

I'm so sorry for your pain and loss. I wish there were more that I could offer you. I hope that you and your husband are able to find peace.

LFCA

msfitzita said...

I'm here from LFCA to send my deepest sympathies and a million (((HUGS))) your way. I'm absolutely devastated for you, and just so, so sorry.

Andrea said...

xoxo honey,

Holding you close today, Saturday, as you honor your sweet boy. Know that I am ALWAYS here for you, no matter what day or what hour. I promise to continue to tie your ROPE for you, just as you have tied mine in the past.

Love you my precious friend
xoxo

Lifting you to the Father

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