tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5600983346006972122.post7807282087088703241..comments2023-06-29T04:23:13.856-07:00Comments on Loving my angels: VentShandreahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09940325534777199906noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5600983346006972122.post-3436884030425490382009-12-16T11:14:24.887-08:002009-12-16T11:14:24.887-08:00I am so sorry to read about your losses!! Reading...I am so sorry to read about your losses!! Reading your post made me remember when I was where you are now... After I lost my son, I became pregnant again and it leaked that perhaps I was having a girl... my SIL (who has boys) said, "Figures... she ALWAYS gets what she wants!" REALLY??? Did I want to have my son be born still??? People can be really dense sometimes- love the bloggin world- wonderful therapy to get it all out!<br />Hugs-<br />Laura<br />(momentsofpause)Laurahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09451958236636719292noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5600983346006972122.post-83044431722503491602009-12-16T07:39:51.504-08:002009-12-16T07:39:51.504-08:00Sweet Girl, as Deni says, seek us as your source o...Sweet Girl, as Deni says, seek us as your source of refuge in the storm. <br /><br />Yes, people are self absorbed and immersed in their "world" and take little time to remember how another may be feeling. Recently, I told my MIL that I wasn't sending Christmas cards, as I didn't have it in me. She responded by saying "cause your depressed?" See, open mouth insert foot! I wanted to say "because I'm struggeling to find my way and make sense of not having given birth to our sweet baby on Dec. 2nd. But, I let it go....<br /><br />One way I am combatting all of these emotions is to do just the opposite and not be self indulgent, but show love to another in need. It helps, a little....<br /><br />My advice, be honest, tell these people that you are hurting and why. And, when I can't go there, I just delete emails and don't read or respond to text, etc...even my own Mother has said insensitive things, so it happens. I'm not excusing the insensitivity in any way, but people are just selfish and self absorbed!!! <br /><br />Hope you have a better day and know you are never alone, never :)<br /><br />Love to you,<br />AndreaAndreahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06709001842788289402noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5600983346006972122.post-52115339235561954732009-12-15T12:14:36.903-08:002009-12-15T12:14:36.903-08:00Hey hon! I am amazed almost daily by the insesitiv...Hey hon! I am amazed almost daily by the insesitive things people say and don't understand it, but I know it's making me a better, more thoughtful person! And as you ended it, I'm also in awe of how kind some people can be, even people who've never been through it! You are a blessing sweetie! Keep the faith and come to us when all seems terrible!! Love you!Denihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16241957159520703116noreply@blogger.com