tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5600983346006972122.post510518030612855811..comments2023-06-29T04:23:13.856-07:00Comments on Loving my angels: Follow Up and a Little RandomnessShandreahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09940325534777199906noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5600983346006972122.post-28021840160967165422010-07-22T12:32:02.480-07:002010-07-22T12:32:02.480-07:00I'm glad that the dr really wants to help you ...I'm glad that the dr really wants to help you and find out if there is anything going on that is not known. It's not an easy decision to know what to do and I pray that God guides you in the direction that you should be. That's so true about the diamonds and such a great analogy. Thanks for sharing that.Hollyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15431384515813384025noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5600983346006972122.post-5050601232795125972010-07-20T19:10:26.208-07:002010-07-20T19:10:26.208-07:00Shandrea, take the time you need, and in time you ...Shandrea, take the time you need, and in time you will know in your heart what your decision is. <br /><br />I am glad that your doctor is still thinking of you, there are so many good souls out there wanting happiness for all of us.<br /><br />I think of you often, love and hugs, AndreaAndreahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04019133323008048190noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5600983346006972122.post-87075732314040081992010-07-20T12:31:38.985-07:002010-07-20T12:31:38.985-07:00Oh...I can only imagine what you are going through...Oh...I can only imagine what you are going through. After Matthew, I was desperate but terrified.<br /><br />I can't even imagine three babies in Heaven and overcoming that fear.<br /><br />I AM glad that you have a doctor who is optimistic and has lots of good ideas to help ensure you bring your next child home to raise for a long, long time. When and if you decid you are ready, it will be good to have that support and I'm always in favor of every test possible to eliminate any problems possible.<br /><br />You are on my heart every day. Just sending you love and prayers for peace for your heart.Lorihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01828552745708177768noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5600983346006972122.post-19413966626865722772010-07-20T11:59:17.894-07:002010-07-20T11:59:17.894-07:00Precious Friend,
I want you to know that you &quo...Precious Friend,<br /><br />I want you to know that you "deserve" every happiness that comes your way. You have failed absolutely no one and you are not a burden on your family and friends. We only want to help you to heal and honor your precious children...yes, they have purpose, their lives HAVE PURPOSE. <br /><br />As for your Dr., I am happy you have someone that cares for you and who you feel comfortable with. Take your time and call his clinic back and ask for details, or ask to go back in a few weeks/months and discuss options again. Do this when you are ready. Just remember, your Dr., felt confident enought to give you options and that is a wonderful thing. I agree with Marie, the belly button procedure sounds like a Laproscopic procedure, which are generaly less invasive. When you are up to it you can write down your questions and research your plan. In the meantime, your Dr. can get the HSG (I had an SHG to explore the uterus in 3-D and it was a sinch, so don't fear it. Let me know when you are going to do that and I'll talk you through it)and then you will have that behind you. These tests are good in the regard they rule out any potential problems. <br /><br />Overall, take good care of yourself, as you have been through such tradgedy. Talk with whomever you need to when you can, as it is very helpful...and we are always here with you, always. I've never told you this before, but my friend Sheri told me some time ago (when I was very low) that she suffered 9 losses at all stages in pregnancy. I asked her how she got out of bed every day....she said "not by choice, but she did it". She has a daughter today. It was through the help of a wonderful Dr. who took lots of time to evaluate her that she was successful. Know that you don't have to just see this Dr., you can do the tests and then take the info to another Dr. for a 2nd opinion if you like. I know all of this talk is very premature right now, as you are hurting so deeply, but just know that I will help you do any research or any Dr. finding you need, promise :) All of us will...the fab 5 will not forsake you. And neither will "he".<br /><br />Love and prayers today and always<br />xxxx<br />meAndreahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06709001842788289402noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5600983346006972122.post-78332788270408330632010-07-20T11:28:29.897-07:002010-07-20T11:28:29.897-07:00This is such a tough decision. I've been in t...This is such a tough decision. I've been in the same place and decided to try again. For me, that means IVF and it's terrifying to think of doing that only to end up with another dead baby. But the thought of just giving up and living with this heartache for the rest of my life is even more terrifying. I pray that there is a great joy ahead for both of us.Anniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12316978989809741699noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5600983346006972122.post-73950612793604483442010-07-20T10:34:24.718-07:002010-07-20T10:34:24.718-07:00I have been at that same place - wavering between ...I have been at that same place - wavering between making a decision to stop or try again. I am glad your Dr. is willing to help in every way. I hope he is talking about a TAC....going through the belly button though...I don't know what that possibly could be. I know most Lap procedures go through ports, and one of those ports is the belly button. Is he talking about a LAP TAC? Thinking of you constantly and praying for your heart.Marie Whttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18203552551406512142noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5600983346006972122.post-30443383305182194982010-07-20T06:10:03.612-07:002010-07-20T06:10:03.612-07:00I know in the right time you will make the decisio...I know in the right time you will make the decision that is best for you, your family and your babies. They are lives lost, but they are in a much better place than here. hat does nothing for the pain, but it is true. Always thinking of you and praying for you xoxoKaty Larsenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14147665316890835738noreply@blogger.com